'I am enjoying life'

          [7:58PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: I was pondering over your earlier question...

          [7:58PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: What do u think is enjoying life

          [8:01PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: I think being with friends I love and the man I love...and going for trips and exploring new places...wud be enjoyment for me...

          [8:02PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: Being able to take unplanned leave from work is enjoyment for me...

          [8:02PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: Being able to curl up with a book with nice fried snacks is enjoyment for me...

         [8:05PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: Having couple of drinks and becoming euphoric and dancing a bit wud    be  enjoyment for me...

         [8:13PM, 10/07/2014] Me: Its strange u never mentioned having kids and growing them....

         [8:13PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: How does that come under enjoyment 

         [8:14PM, 10/07/2014] My friend: That wud come under inevitable stress and torture!

Well, I frequently make that above statement in my diary. I want to remember the good times in my life. May be this statement is a sign that I fear that something bad will happen in my life. This is like counterattack thinking. Thinking the opposite possibility of whatever topic. More fruitful would be a lateral thinking. Anyway that is not of my interest now.

The above conversation was made with one of my best friends. I saved it because, it is like an ideal answer to the question. May be later in life I will review this answer. It is fun to see how things, ideas and views change as the years pass by.